Let’s talk about money.

Big life changes often cause us to have crises of faith, to question what we believe to be true about ourselves and the world. When we have major transitions, good or bad, we tend to project the fear and stress of the unknown onto places of our wounding (money, body image, health, etc.). We tend to make it mean something about our reality that isn’t necessarily true.

Admittedly, when my relationship imploded a few months ago, I had a few weeks of wanting to freak out about money. Sure, there were some real life things that played a role, the cost of movers and furnishing a whole apartment, paying much more in rent… but I’ve been working on my shit with money for years, and I had the funds. And I knew that the end of this relationship actually had nothing to do with my global financial reality, about my ability to earn, save, have money. I always made my own, and he never supported me financially. 

However, it’s not that long ago that I did have a messy relationship with money. Despite doing all sorts of top layer, cognitive reorganizing around money, nervous system dysregulation and trauma wounds around safety and worthiness and had me keeping financial stability at arms length.

Kind of hilariously to me, what changed the game was EMDR. In hindsight, it makes perfect sense. Processing heaps of memories that taught me that I was nothing, that I was broken and not good enough allowed me to bridge the gap to actually believe the things I’d been working to unlearn about scarcity, and feel the truth of the manifesting work I’d put in over the years.

Last night I was looking over my books and I was shocked to see the timeline of it all: In 3 years, I’ve more than tripled my income. LOL.

This is possibly my favorite, nontraditional way I love to support my clients, especially women: the realm of money. Because in this reality, money equates safety, freedom and choice. No matter your tax bracket or what you grew up with, most people have some weird shit with worthiness, and this almost always translates to money.

So if you got yourself a relationship with abundance that needs mending, let’s talk. I got something for that.